Day 60 of 100 Days of Advice on How to Treat Men Right
Let go. Embrace your femininity and surrender. Let go of the illusion of control. There is a beauty in full sensual surrender to your partner. A trust of him and of yourself. Bowing to the beauty within yourself, and the beauty of who he is. Feeling the power of who he is, acknowledging the power of you are in surrender.
Your self acknowledged power doesn’t always need to be a competition. And beyond sensual surrender, is learning to surrender to the wisdom of the man in your life. That does not mean you do not also have wisdom to share, of course you do. It means receptivity to his innate wisdom as well. Surrender is not subjugation, that is a hurtful misconception that drives many women to not surrender. Surrender is an inner peace with yourself and your partner even if it comes at first only in moments. The practice of surrender is enriching.
Instead of the balance of surrender women have been encouraged to ram into their partners instead of mix in with their partners. Surrender allows you to fully receive your partner and experience him fully and experience yourself fully.
You cannot fully know yourself, if you have not surrendered to your partner on some level.
Deep surrender takes time and practice for some. With this deep surrender there is an deeper connection and intimacy with the man in your life. It is also a deep sign of trust. Trusting yourself to surrender, trusting your partner as you surrender to him. Trust his knowledge as you would trust yours. Trust him intimately as you would trust yourself. Surrender.