Day 33 of 100 Days of Loving Men

Day 33 of 100 Days on how to treat men right and lead with your heart in relationship and daily interactions with men.

#33 Stop whining for him to rescue you from everything.

Now, there’s a difference between sharing your pain with your partner which is healthy, intimate and being clear in communication versus just whining just to whine. We’re human and we feel and that’s important. What I’ve noticed however, is women can take the protector role of men and use it as a crutch to just whine to him and want him to rescue her out of every situation.

You’re a couple, yes and you are still an individual. There are many things you will and must solve together as a couple, figuring out which nail polish to put on, does not need to be one of them. Totally fine to ask your partner which dress he likes best but you don’t need to ask him every single time. You are an adult, you can dress yourself without his help. He does not need to rescue you from your closet. Seriously.

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