Day 34 of 100 Days of advice on how to treat men right in relationship and daily interactions with men.
#34 Take time and think of what you bring or will bring to a relationship.
Many women spend time thinking of a very long and specific list of what they want in a man. But, how many also take time to think what they wish to bring to the relationship?
If you already are in a relationship it’s good to check in if your give and take are balanced.
The “he needs to be this, and this and this” is a mindset of demanding a man enter your life to please your every whim. It dismisses men as individual human beings who have their own needs and wants and desires. There is nothing wrong with knowing what you want in a relationship. However, stay conscious that you are not just thinking of you.
Try writing down what you want to bring into the relationship. What do you have to offer him?